"Tranz-lesbian-ism"

  girl-girl attraction

Lets face it: most every t-girl's attracted to another tranz-women at some point in her evolution. Almost every beginning t-girl is majorly attracted to other tranz-females. Even post-operative transsexuals exhibit a stronger propensity for lesbianism, than not.

Why is this?

It's a good question. I suspect with early-stage t-girls, the allure is rooted within years of contempt for her male existence - unwanted body hair, masculine features & garb, etc. Intimacy with another transgender represents a sexual celebration of sorts - releasing her from years of gender bondage.

Additionally, while newer t-gals usually continue to be primarily drawn to genetic women, the girl within her soul tends to relish the idea of certain anatomical male features with her female partner. I'm guessing you know what I'm talking about. *Laugh*

For more experienced gals, attraction is usually rooted in a heightened sense of understanding & compassion. Another experienced compatible tranz-female offers less drama in the most basic of relationship prerequisites - love me, as I am.

types of tranz-lesbians

There's as many types of tranz-lesbians as there are transgenders. Alas, it's harder to classify tranz-women. Some are not only evolving based upon experience but also with transition. Thus, their dual-evolution makes finding a fixed point in space damn-near impossible. What else what you expect from a bunch of tranny's? *Grin*

Following are the most common variations & issues associated with each.

The Beginning T-Girl

For beginning t-girls, the desire for another transgender usually runs pretty deep. (No pun, intended) This attraction intensifies with gals they consider prettier or more feminine than themselves. Their ultimate fantasy tends to be a stunning pre-operative transsexual.

For these new gals, the whole concept of having a relationship "as a woman" is a big rush. They're usually not drawn to masculine men. Also, costuming & lingerie is often an important component of their desires as these feminine accoutrements heighten the sensation associated with their newfound identity & freedom.

As I mentioned above, their attraction is based upon a celebration of finally exploring their transgender leanings.

The Advanced Tranz-girl

Tranz-girls with more experience often broaden their sexual horizons. While they might always be drawn to another lovely t-girl, they tend to be less caught up in the sensation associated with transgender attraction. Thus, they're more likely to just seek partners they find appealing on a spiritual level - regardless of gender.

If they're ever going to find masculine men appealing as partners, this is the phase where they're most likely to explore that leaning. More than one gal on this planet finds men appealing in her female persona but is not remotely attracted to that same guy in her male role. That only sounds strange to someone that isn't tranz. *Laugh*

In time, experienced gals tend to achieve comfort in their leanings & desires in both gender personas. Bottom line? She knows what she likes based upon the most important of all prerequisites: experience.

The Early Stage Pre-operative Transsexual

As a gal first starts transition, her life becomes overwhelmed with novel sensations caused by an exciting new existence and minor changes occurring in her body & mind.

Honestly?

You never know who these gals are going to find appealing as they tend to be all over the map. By nature, it's a stage of flux. These gals probably aren't easily cast as any sort of admirer because the woman they consider most appealing is the one they're creating on the horizon.

Can you say...it's all about me? *Laugh* I don't know how anybody stood me when I was in this phase of evolution.

The Full-time Pre-Operative Transsexual Female

Women who've lived 24/7 as a woman for a good bit of time tend to settle back into traditional desires when it comes to a partner. These gals are usually past any sensation associated with their female existence.

Unfortunately, they're still forced to constantly deal with their pre-operative loins in all phases of their life. Thus, drama-related transgender attraction is the last thing they often want or need in life. It's easy for a gal in this situation to get little jaded. They're needing and wanting a normal relationship with someone they find appealing. Normalcy - is often the one aspect missing from their lives. Most potential partners are either not comfortable with their "situation"...or are a bit too enamored by their unique anatomy. Thus, the process of sorting out which-is-which...gets old.

A number of gals in this phase will explore a committed union with a masculine male - even when they're not naturally inclined to do so. They often tire of lesbian-based issues associated with trade-off's between various roles of masculinity & femininity. A union where they're always perceived "as the woman" usually appeals to their senses.

The Post-Operative Transsexual Female

Attraction in this department tends to follow traditional lines of sexual orientation. Gay or straight...it's all good. You are, who you are. Plus, as a "postie" - a gal's finally in a position to not have to disclose her unique gender until she feels it's appropriate. And often times, there's never a reason to do so.

Still, lesbian leanings tend to become most common when we're talking long-term unions. I think I've seen estimates of about 70%. Alas, I'm not convinced these relationships are as based upon sexual orientation as they are about the likelihood of finding quality intimacy. New-found women are often challenged by the discriminating nature of masculine men when it comes to a committed union. Since some genetic-female lesbians similarly discriminate against transgenders, a growing number of tranz-women are ending up with one another as long term partners.

next stop?

Did you identify with any of these roles? Some gals associate with more than one phase or leaning. Don't feel bad - I've pretty much lived in every one of these roles during my gender evolution.

Guess what? We're finally done with all the prodding & poking of various types of admirers.

Next up? T-Girls...who they are, why they exhibit a femme essence plus some variations you'll encounter.

After that, we'll finally begin the process of exploring all the various matching possibilities and how to improve you're likelihood of transgender loving success.

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