the admirer's handbook
the admirer's handbook
"Professional Girls"
a better option than you'd think
You'll probably think I am a "pro" after reading this section. I'm not. I suspect I'd starve in the process. That doesn't seem like a sound vocational path for Renee.*Smile*
Have you ever paid a genetic female for sex? No? Well, if there was ever a time to consider hiring the services of a "professional girl" - this is the moment. Whereas you can "chase" genetic females in just about any locale, your pursuit of a t-girl will often "put" you in spots that are a bit more dangerous - particularly to newcomers. It also offers the potential for embarrassment from "exposure" - not to mention life threatening diseases.
If you are just trying to fulfill a long felt fantasy, or "occasional" desire through a t-girl, I'd have to suggest you visit a girl who offers such services for "favors". For some strange reason, a lot of men consider the option of paying someone for attention as "beneath" them. I'm not suggesting you pay for "attention". Rather, I'm recommending you invest in the "experience". If you're not willing and able to invest in a relationship - it's the best (and cheapest) way!
Besides, some of these girls are only doing "this" to help pay for SRS (Sexual Reassignment Surgery) - which is very expensive. So it's sort of like helping out a "college girl"!! ::))
the advantages
safety
Lets look at the cost of pursuing a t-girl without paying for "intimate attention". You'll pay cover charges at bars, run the risk of DUI's getting home, you'll be in places you are unfamiliar with, you'll be out at very late hours, - and you will have to do this fairly often - to get to know even the average looking girls.
It is a rare admirer indeed who doesn't have a "horror story" of some nearly catastrophic event he endured in his quest for t-sex. It's not that we're dangerous - transsexuals are usually quite passive. Rather, it's the environments we hang out in - that aren't always "four-star".
beauty
If you choose to be with a professional girl, you know you will "score". She will likely have breast enhancement, and be fairly attractive. She will certainly be more feminine than most the girls you might find at a t-friendly bar.
confidence
At the very least, you'll get past the nervousness of the "first time". As your experience grows, you can leverage this confidence into much deeper associations. I get letters from guys telling me they are a tg virgin - as if they think this is going to excite a t-girl. It doesn't. "Virgins" are something guys with inflated ego's are attracted to. The fact is, most women - virgin or otherwise - are attracted to men who are sexually confident. And confidence comes from experience.
experience
Stop and try and give an honest answer to my next question. If you were a woman, would you want to end up in bed with a male virgin? Sexual clumsiness is not alluring - it is downright frustrating. If you are good in bed with women, you will understand this best. You get good at sex - with a sense of personal passion - as well as with practice.
All you newcomers: let me let you in on a little secret. Sexual satisfaction with a t-girl is different from that of "normal" women. It takes a little experience to be good at it. If you're not, it isn't going to be any fun for her - and likely won't be for you. Men somehow think just because they have a penis, they will automatically know how to make another one feel good. Most "suck" at it early on - and I don't mean that in a positive way.
menu of professional t-girls
One thing using a pro "doesn't do" - is provide a license to throw your manners out the window. Because I know so many of these girls, I can tell you - just because you pay - doesn't mean you are "getting it" more than once - if at all. If you act like a jerk from the onset, they'll simply leave you hanging - before you even "start". At the very least, you'll never see them again.
Since there are no certification requirements to be classified as a "professional" t-girl - we'll just categorize them as any such girl who solicits sex in exchange for money. Sound fair enough? With that in mind, let's look at the available options:
Street Girls
"Danger, Will Robinson, danger". Can I make this any more clear? Unless you simply enjoy the process of putting your life in jeopardy - I'd pass on this option. There was a time when this was actually a pretty viable avenue. For decades, full-time t-girls were unable to gain any meaningful employment due to discrimination issues. That time has passed. What you'll find on the street today, is typically the worst form of person. Drug addiction, diseases, and an inclination to rob you blind - are common traits of today's "tg street girl". Not all the street girls are this way - but most are. I'd really suggest you "drive right by" this opportunity.
Bar Girls
Some of the girls in t-friendly bars take money "or favors" in exchange for sex. Quite frankly, a lot of them do this to support a drug habit. Others are just trying to make a little "extra" weekend play money.
In Atlanta, I know these girls faces, names, and personalities - because I see them out all the time at the clubs. However, most always look "the same" - no matter where I travel. Most are cocaine thin, some are absolutely gorgeous. Unfortunately, they usually drop off the face of the earth in time - due to a lifestyle that the human body simply isn't designed to endure.
You can meet some pretty hot girls in tg-friendly nightclubs. All t-girls - from the "first time" crossdresser - to the "silicone" beauty queen - like to have fun. And t-friendly bars are usually where "we play". However, "experience" in the t-girl scene will play a big role in your having any success with this option.
Girls with Ads
In major metropolitan areas, you'll find a variety of sex related "newspapers" - which include personal ads for professional t-girls. Most include a photo of the girl and a physical description. Additionally, some ads will include particular features or specialties which make each gal unique.
You will find ads for these girls on-line, and in local sex publications. A photo helps a lot. Anyone without a photo, usually isn't worth responding to. If you call, and just get this really sexy feminine voice, you might be surprised to end up meeting a former linebacker at her door. (And I'm not referring to some guy she has there for security) Some are glorified street walkers who run ads because they are so ugly, no one would pick them up on the street. Still, display ads cost more - and you might unearth your "queen" in the fine print.
Yellow page escort ads will often include if they have t-girls. If none do, try the regular ones or those promoting "gay" escorts. Sometimes they just can't " keep" t-girls - thus they don't advertise their availability. I know this because I get handed a business card from one of these outfits every other time I go out - by someone with an agency wanting me to join their "service". Alas, I don't do "escorts".
choosing your lover
How do you select the right gal from "an ad"? It's a bit tricky. Why? Because traditional "women's sizes" mean less - when it comes to t-girls. You will be interested in knowing her physical size and appearance. Add the weight and height in your head - and remember: they are likely "fudging" on the pounds by at least 10%. Have you ever met a women that was honest about her weight?
It is very fair to ask questions - "within reason" - on what they will and won't do. I say within reason because unless you're calling in Nye County, Nevada - this whole process is still slightly illegal. She must remain cautious. Remember that - when you "phrase" a question.
Personalities amongst working gals - varies like weather. Some are "all business" - others will talk your leg off. In general, I think you'll find transsexual lovers to be amongst the coolest lovers you'll ever get to know. Which type is right for you varies widely by your own personal desires. Following is a list of the most common attributes guys seek. I'd rank the ones most important to you - and focus on finding the gal that seems best suited to fulfill those desires.
Looks - To me, a beautiful transsexual is the loveliest creature on earth. A photo can help in this department - but remember - she likely chose from many - to pick the one you "see".
Friendliness - You will find this to be more important than you'd first think. Some gals are real bitches with their clients. For a first-timer, I'd rank this "high". It will help in getting past your nervousness.
Breasts - If you want a gal with "breasts" - remember that cup size is most important - not her "chest" size.
Height / Weight - Some guys only want "petite" girls - which are rarer - except amongst Asians. As a general rule - we are not petite creatures.
Top / Bottom - Beyond oral sex and masturbation, some guys want to have "intercourse" with a gal - or have her - "penetrate" them. If this is important to you, you might want to ask is she performs "as a bottom" - or is functional as a top. Some gals go either way - but most tend to be on one side - or the other - of this "coin".
Domination - Lots of men fantasize about being dominated by a "tranny". You'll find a number of professionals that are willing to fulfill this "need".
Voice - Some transsexuals have very feminine voices - others do not. A phone call will let you know what she "sounds" like.
"Size" - Many men seek the gals with the largest "wanger" - as it seems to add a good bit of intensity to the paradox. "How large are you?" - is a fair question.
Functional - A "functional" gal can achieve an erection. Since a lot of these girls are heavy doses of hormones, some can no longer accomplish this "feat". Many ads will mention this trait with "fully functional" or "f/f".
Feminization - Some men want a t-girl to dress them up as a gal. Depending on how far you want them to go with "this" - it can get expensive - and is more difficult to find.
net tools
There are several on-line sites that provide advice for choosing the girl of your dreams. The best I've seen is SheMale Escort Review - a site where people share their personal experiences with certain "pros". If you travel - you will find this to be an extremely valuable tool in finding the right gal for you.
What makes this "club" special is that the founder does an excellent job of "coaching" informative responses and analysis from the members. You'll also find notes and observations on girls in cities all over the country. Any of your experiences with girls will also be appreciated by all.
Other places you might "look" include:
Happy Hunting!! *Smile*
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