Frequently Asked Questions about Finding a Shemale Escort
So you want to hook up with a hot tranny, huh?
You're not alone! Interest in transgender escorts soared over the last decade. Erotic imagery of transsexuals is the hottest category in all of adult entertainment. According to a recent article by Seth Rosen of The Examiner: “Nearly 190 million heterosexual men are attracted to transsexual women and actively seek romantic contact with or sexually explicit images of them annually.
According to the latest Internet statistics, interest in ‘transsexual’ topics has risen more than 5,000 percent in the past five years, and interest in ‘transsexual dating’ has surged more than 400 percent. In the past 90 days alone, combined traffic from the top 10 adult sites and top 10 dating sites catering exclusively to trans-loving males has risen 350 percent. While some crossover invariably exists, heterosexual male visitors to these 20 websites now top 188 million annually. And this figure doesn’t include traffic counts from the additional 300+ transsexual sites already in existence.”
In case you haven't already discovered, finding an attractive, feminine and compatible TS for healthy fun and dating is no cake walk.
Your best bet to scratch your itch?
Hire an escort.
Following is common questions I received from guys looking to hook up with a shemale escort - and my suggestions on optimizing your success & pleasure.
Before we get to all that…
If you're looking for insider tips on meeting a tranny? These other articles might provide what you're looking for:
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Tranny Escort - Using a Pro
Frequently Asked Questions About Hiring a TS Escort
Additional Main Chapters in this Area, include:
I Want to Marry a Shemale
Transsexual Girlfriend Guide
Finding Your Transsexual Girlfriend
Meeting a Transsexual Woman
Telling Others You Have a Transsexual Girlfriend
I want to meet and get intimate with one of those tranny's I've seen in pornographic movies. How can I do that?
It's easier than you'd first think.
Transsexual pornography has seen a major boom the last ten years - it's generally considered the only growing sector left in the porn business. (No pun, intended). A lot of the gals you see staring in these flicks are active in the personal escort scene at sites like Eros. These sort of promotional platforms allow such TS escorts to travel from city to city each year - providing "fresh" flavor to local markets.
I'm most concerned about indiscretion - I would die if somebody found out I was intimate with a TS. Any advice?
No worries: guess what? Professional trans-girls are just as worried over a low profile as you are.
What they do is considered illegal just about everywhere. The last place a pre-operative transsexual wants to end up is jail: can you imagine the horror? We don’t get housed with the women - because of our "unique" anatomy.
Indiscretion is essentially a non-issue. Unless - you anger her with constant unwanted calls or don’t pay her. Do that? She might seek retribution by trying to "out" your activities.
I'm going to meet my first "pro". What should I take with me?
She’ll have condoms but you might want to take your own, as well. If you want to be penetrated? I suggest that you “loosen up” your anal muscles before embarking on a fantasy. If it’s your first time being "bottom"? It might be more painful than you imagined. Thus, don’t get drunk or geeked out before hand. You need to be completely relaxed to enjoy being bottom.
A good clean showering is also a great idea - poor hygiene is the biggest complaint most prostitutes have regarding clients.
I would also suggest you buy an hour - not a half - particularly if it's your first time: you don't want to feel rushed. TS women are usually really easy to talk to - remember: we get men in a way a born gal never understands. The conversations are what lots of guys enjoy most of all.
I want her to "penetrate" me. How do I discern if she can / will do this before I spend any time and money?She will usually say if she’s a “top” or “versatile” in her ad - that means she’s able and/or willing to penetrate you. If her ad says she offers a "GFE" - that means she’s all bottom and offers a “girlfriend experience - i.e. you being with your regular girlfriend - you, on top. Make sense?
What's "off limits" with a "pro"?
Don’t ask anything sexual over the phone, be respectful to her rules and to her - as a person: i.e. don’t do anything that draws attention - like showing up drunk and making lots of noise.
Some prostitutes don't kiss - too intimate. I would personally struggle with such an arrangement since that's the activity that makes intimacy work for me - or not.
Unique sexual desires (crossrdessing, bondage, fantasy play) might or might not be offered. However, most of the time these gals will charge you extra for such adventure. Some will include within their ad if this is embraced / cool.
What if she doesn't look like her photo from her advertisement?
Sadly, this happens — even with normal dating on Match.com. However, you're not typically paying for the privilege of someone's time when you meet off a traditional dating site.
If her hair color is different or she gained five pounds? Give it a rest. However, if she's obviously not the same girl in the photo or not what you expected - just walk. Integrity matters on every level. Things will usually just get worse if you stick around. If she starts hollering or mouthing off as you walk away - just keep walking and don't engage her behavior: she doesn't deserve your time.
I would soooo be with a TS - were it not for my fear of contracted a deadly STD. Any ideas?
It's "possible" to contract AID's from oral sex. However, its not easily accomplished - need an open sore in your mouth and bodily fluids to cause this blood born disease to find it's way into your system.
The biggest potential risk?
"Barebacking" - the act of performing sexual intercourse without the use of a condom. Some guys just can't get past the desire for the sensation of a big cream pie - as top or bottom.
Please don't ever do this with someone you're not dating steady and confident they're clean. Just pretend…fantasy often beats reality much of the time anyway.
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