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Using a Transsexual Escort to Explore Your Desires

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You'll probably think I’m a "pro" after reading this section:
not.

I’m not ugly but I’m also no knock-out. The only girls I saw make decent money doing
this are freaking drop-dead gorgeous. I'm better suited working my silicone ass off in a day job for a reliable paycheck: starved once before in my past - sucked!



Ever paid a genetic female for sex?

No?

Well, if there was ever a time to consider hiring the services of a "professional girl" -
this is that moment. Whereas you can chase genetic females in just about any locale, your pursuit of a transsexual lady will often put you in spots that can be more dangerous - particularly to newcomers. It also offers the potential for embarrassment from "outed" - not to mention life threatening diseases.

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If you are just trying to fulfill a long felt fantasy, or occasional desire for a transgender girl, I'd suggest you visit a gal who offers such services in “return for financial favors".

For some strange reason, lots of men consider the option of paying someone for attention as beneath them. I'm not suggesting you pay for attention. Rather, I'm recommending you invest in building your experience and skills. If you're not willing and able to invest in an open relationship with a transgender female- an escort is definitely the best (and cheaper) pathway!

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Besides, some of these girls are only doing this to help pay for GRS (Gender Reassignment Surgery) - which is very expensive. So it's sort of like helping out a college girl!! ::))



If you decide to pull the trigger - would strongly suggest you also read:

Tranny Escort - Using a Pro
Frequently Asked Questions About Hiring a TS Escort

The Advantages of Using a Shemale Escort
Safety

Let's look at the cost of pursuing a trans-girl without paying for intimate attention. You'll pay cover charges at bars, run the risk of DUI's getting home, you'll be in places you are unfamiliar with, you'll be out at very late, - and you will have to do this fairly often - to get to know even the average looking girls.

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It is a rare admirer indeed who doesn't have a horror story of some nearly catastrophic event he endured in his quest for trans-sex. It's not that we're dangerous - transsexuals are usually quite passive. Rather, it's the environments we hang in - that aren't always "four-star". 


Beauty

Let's face it: beauty matters. And for most guys with this desire - a feminine and attractive transsexual lady with soft smooth skin, large hips and a feminine booty, full breasts + the surprise underneath - is what makes the desire so intoxicating. Your likelihood of finding all that just from personal ads in essentially zero.



Also, if you choose to be with a professional girl, you know you will score.
Confidence

At the very least, you'll get past the nervousness of the "first time". As your experience grows, you can leverage this confidence into much deeper associations. I get letters from guys telling me they are a tg virgin - as if they think this is going to excite a transsexual. It doesn't. Virgins are something guys with inflated ego's are attracted. Fact is, most women - virgin or otherwise - are attracted to men who are sexually confident. And confidence comes from experience.

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Stop and try and give an honest answer to my next question. If you were a woman, would you want to end up in bed with a male virgin? Sexual clumsiness is not alluring - it is downright frustrating. If you are good in bed with women, you will understand this best. You get good at sex - with a sense of personal passion - as well as with practice.

Experience

All you newcomers: let me let you in on a little secret. Sexual satisfaction with a t-girl is different from that of "normal" women. It takes a little experience to be good at it. If you're not, it isn't going to be any fun for her - and likely won't be for you. Men somehow think just because they have a penis, they will automatically know how to make another one feel good. Most suck at it early on - and I don't mean that in a positive way.



Problems with Using a Transsexual Escort


Some Escort Ad Photos are Old and Unreliable

Some girls end up looking nothing like their picture. If you read “reviews” sites - you’ll eliminate this problem.

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You Lose Touch with Reality

If your eventual goal is to actually find a long-long transsexual partner? Seeing transsexual escorts too often will sometimes make you lose sight of reality. Escorts will go along with leanings and behavior that a typical trans-woman would not. In fact, those same escorts wouldn’t do it either - if you weren’t paying them. No different than if you were only dating prostitutes in a normal female relationship.


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One thing using a pro doesn't do - is provide a license to throw your manners out the window. Because I know so many of these girls, I can tell you - just because you pay - doesn't mean you are "getting it" more than once - if at all - if you act like a jerk from the onset, they'll simply leave you hanging - before you even start. At the very least, you'll never see them again.

Since there are no certification requirements to be classified as a professional shemale escort - we'll just categorize them as “any such trans-girl who solicits sex in exchange for money”.

Sound fair enough?

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With that in mind, let's look at some available options:

Street Girls

"Danger, Will Robinson, danger".

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Can I make this any more clear? Unless you simply enjoy the process of putting your life in jeopardy - I'd pass on this option. There was a time when this was actually a viable avenue. For decades, full-time trans-girls were unable to gain meaningful employment due to discrimination issues. That time has passed. What you'll find on the street today, is typically the worst form of person. Drug addiction, diseases, and an inclination to rob you blind - are common traits of today's "tg street girl". Not all the street girls are this way - but most are. I'd really suggest you "drive right by" this opportunity.

Bar Girls

Some of the girls in t-friendly bars take money "or favors" in exchange for sex. Quite frankly, a lot of them do this to support a drug habit. Others are just trying to make a little "extra" weekend play money.

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In Atlanta, I know these girls faces, names, and personalities - because I see them out all the time at the clubs. However, most always look "the same" - no matter where I travel: Cocaine thin, and some are absolutely gorgeous. Unfortunately, they usually drop off the face of the earth in time - due to a lifestyle that the human body simply isn't designed to endure.



You can meet some pretty hot girls in transgender friendly nightclubs. All trans-girls - from first time crossdressers - to the silicone queens - like to have fun. And trans-friendly bars are usually where some play. However, experience in the t-girl scene will play a big role in you having success with this option. 

Girls with Ads

With the demise of Back Page and Craigslist personals - you'll need to look other places for your new friend.

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This now the primary promotion source for all escorts across the US. When you combine these contacts with shemale escort reviews, you’ll usually find w

Eros

If you have a larger budget, Eros is probably your best resource. Most transsexuals active on Eros constantly travel the US and keep their schedule of when they’ll be in your city posted on Eros. Many of the most well known shemale porn stars use this venue to connect with men.

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How to Choose the Right Shemale Escort

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How do you select the right gal from "an ad"? It's a bit tricky. Why? Because traditional "women's sizes" mean less -  when it comes to t-girls. You will be interested in knowing her physical size and appearance. Add the weight and height in your head - and remember: they are likely "fudging" on the pounds by at least 10%. Have you ever met a women that was honest about her weight?

You can’t expect her to respond to sexual questions over the phone. Unless you're calling in Nye County, Nevada - this whole process is still slightly illegal.

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You need to closely examine her ad and consider things most important to your fantasy. The most common issues include:

Fully Functional or F/F - A "functional" gal can achieve an erection. Since a lot of these girls are heavy doses of hormones, some can no longer accomplish this "feat". Many ads will mention this trait with "fully functional" or "f/f".

Penis Size - Most guys want the prettiest girl they can find with the largest fully functional penis they can get: just the norm. Gals will include this along with their female body measurements.



Top / Bottom - Beyond oral sex and masturbation, some guys want to have intercourse with a gal - or have her  - penetrate them. If you want her to penetrate you? You’re looking for a girl who says she’s “a top” - or that she’s “versatile” (meaning she can be either top or bottom. If you want to penetrate her - she’ll mention she’s a bottom or offers a “girlfriend experience” / GFE. That means she’s only on the receiving end with intercourse. Got it?




Friendliness
- You will find this to be more important than you'd first think. Some gals are real bitches with their clients. For a first-timer, I'd rank this "high". It will help in getting past your nervousness. Escort reviews will tell you a lot about her attitude with customers.

Breasts -  If you want a gal with "breasts"  - remember that cup size is most important - not her "chest" size. 
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Height / Weight - Some guys only want "petite" girls - which are rarer - except amongst Asians. As a general rule - we are not petite creatures. 

Domination - Lots of men fantasize about being dominated by a "tranny". You'll find a number of professionals that are willing to fulfill this "need".



Voice
- Some transsexuals have very feminine voices - others do not.

Feminization - Some men want a t-girl to dress them up as a gal. Depending on how far you want them to go with "this" - it can get expensive - and more difficult to find.

Escort Review Sites

There are several on-line sites that provide advice for choosing the girl of your dreams.

If you're local in Atlanta - there's a great free review platform on Tumblr called Atlanta TS Reviews that stays current and seems responsive to questions about specific girls. I suspect other platforms exist, as well.



The largest & most comprehensive review site is
TER - The Escort Review. They cover all genres of escorts including transsexuals, its updated often and like Amazon reviews - if you read enough of them - its pretty accurate. You have to pay to access detailed reviews but its more than worth the investment when it comes to TS women - particularly if you're sorting out exactly what you want and need from your lover - i.e. - does she have a safe, private place to play, does she look like her ad photos, does she top, is she a bitch with clients, etc.

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You can also Google a specific escort’s phone number and will often be directed to a local “review”.

Good Luck!